Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings disagree on elderly parent care

My sister and I are both caring for our dad who has dementia and she thinks we should move him to memory care but I think we can manage at home for longer. We've started avoiding these conversations because they always end badly but the decisions keep getting bigger and I can feel us getting angry at each other in ways that might not heal.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love the same person are discovering that love doesn't automatically create consensus about what's best.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Single parenting — the full experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.