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Scenario

When adult siblings have unequal family roles

My sister and I are both in our forties and we've never talked about the fact that she was Dad's favorite and I was the one who took care of Mom when she was dying. Now our kids are growing up together and I can see her expecting the same kind of automatic caretaking from me that our family always did.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Inherited family dynamics are repeating across generations without ever being acknowledged or chosen.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs?”

Peri

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