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Scenario

When siblings disagree on trauma-informed versus traditional parenting approaches

My sister and I are both raising kids with trauma backgrounds and she keeps judging my 'soft' approach while I think her traditional consequences are retraumatizing — and now our kids are picking up on the tension between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people with shared family history are discovering that their approaches to breaking intergenerational cycles are fundamentally at odds, and their children are witnessing the same kind of family discord they're each trying to heal.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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