My sister and I are both seeing how our extended family has this pattern of turning on anyone who doesn't participate in the family drama - if you don't take sides in conflicts or refuse to engage with gossip and feuds, you get treated like you think you're better than everyone else. We're tired of being pulled into other people's fights but the cost of staying neutral seems to be getting excluded from everything, including seeing our nieces and nephews.
More people experience this than they realize.
Some families weaponize connection, making peace contingent on participation in their wars.
“Where Are You with The toxicity of some tribes?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.