Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings parent differently while healing from shared childhood trauma

My sister and I are raising kids who play together constantly, and we're both trying to parent differently than how we grew up, but we keep bumping into each other's boundaries and approaches. When her kids melt down at my house or mine act out at hers, we handle it so differently that the kids are getting mixed messages and we're both feeling judged.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people from the same wounded family system are creating different healing paths that sometimes conflict in practical co-parenting moments.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.