My sister and I both have kids and jobs and we keep having the same fight about family obligations - who can make it to birthday parties, who's traveling for work during school events. We both feel like the other one doesn't understand how hard we're trying and it's affecting our relationship with our parents too.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people with identical structural constraints are competing for who sacrifices less, while the real problem is impossible expectations.
“Where Are You with Work and parenting — the structural impossibility?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.