My sister and I both moved back to our hometown during covid to help with our aging parents and we're constantly stepping on each other's toes about who's responsible for what. We never talked about how this would work and now we're both resentful - me because I feel like I'm doing everything, her because she feels like I don't trust her to do anything right.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to love the same people well but haven't learned how to coordinate their care.
“Where Are You with Found family in migration and diaspora?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.