My sister and I both moved back to our hometown to help with Mom's declining health but we have completely different ideas about boundaries and care - she thinks I'm not doing enough, I think she's burning herself out and enabling Mom's manipulation. Every conversation about Mom turns into a fight about us.
More people experience this than they realize.
The weight of caring for someone you both love can expose every old wound between you, making it impossible to know if you're fighting about them or about yourselves.
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