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Scenario

When siblings disagree on repairing exclusion they've caused together

My sister and I both realized we've been leaving our teenage nephew out of family gatherings because his autism makes things 'complicated' and now we're seeing how much damage we've done but we handle guilt completely differently and keep talking past each other about how to repair this. She wants to pretend it never happened and I think we need to actually apologize but neither of us knows how to bridge this gap between us first.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who participated in the same harmful exclusion are discovering they have fundamentally different approaches to accountability and repair.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Exclusion and its damage?”

Peri

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