Periagoge
Scenario

When inheritance decisions trigger unresolved family dynamics

My sister and I inherited our grandmother's jewelry collection together and we thought we could handle dividing it fairly but every conversation turns into relitigating old family dynamics and who was the favorite grandchild. We both want to honor our grandmother's memory but we're letting our own baggage poison something that should be sacred.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Dividing meaningful possessions can resurrect dormant grievances about love and fairness that have little to do with the objects themselves.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African communal parenting traditions?”

Peri

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