My sister and I inherited our grandmother's jewelry together but we both have completely different relationships to family heirlooms and what they mean. She wants to wear and enjoy everything and I feel like we should preserve it all exactly as it is and neither of us understands the other's perspective.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your different ways of honoring memory and meaning are creating a conflict that's really about love, not objects.
“Where Are You with Assimilation vs. cultural preservation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.