My sister had her baby two months ago and asked me to help, but every time I try to do something with the baby or suggest anything she gets defensive and acts like I'm criticizing her. I want to support her but I'm starting to feel like I should just stay away, and I don't think that's what either of us actually wants.
More people experience this than they realize.
The vulnerability of new motherhood is colliding with the complexity of family relationships in ways that push away the very support that's needed most.
“Where Are You with The newborn phase — survival and attachment?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.