My spouse and I host a monthly dinner for our couple friends but lately it feels like we're all just performing happiness for each other, and I'm wondering if we created this tradition because we were actually lonely in our marriages and now none of us knows how to be real about what's not working.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very gatherings meant to create belonging can become elaborate performances that prevent the vulnerability belonging requires.
“Where Are You with The need to belong — evolutionary foundation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.