My teenage daughter and I have been in this cycle where she pulls away and I chase her and then she pulls away more and I don't know how to break it. We used to be close and now every conversation feels like I'm doing something wrong but when I try to give her space she says I don't care.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love each other are trapped in a pattern where both their needs for connection and autonomy feel impossible to meet.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
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