My teenage daughter and I used to be close but ever since the divorce she's been angry at me specifically and I think she blames me for breaking up the family. Her dad and I have different rules at our houses and she's playing us against each other and I don't know how to rebuild what we had.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fracture in your family system has created competing allegiances that are preventing the healing you both need.
“Where Are You with Assimilation vs. cultural preservation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.