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When divorce changes the parent-child relationship unevenly

My teenage daughter and I used to be close but since the divorce she's been angry and distant with me specifically, while maintaining a good relationship with her dad. We're living in the same house but feel like strangers and I don't know if I should give her space or keep trying to bridge the gap.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent and child are both grieving the loss of their family structure but experiencing blame and distance instead of mutual support.

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