My two best friends from college and I have stayed close for fifteen years, but one of them is going through a divorce and is leaning heavily on our group for support in ways that are affecting my relationship with the other friend. We all want to be there for her but the intensity is changing our whole dynamic.
More people experience this than they realize.
Individual pain demands collective reorganization that no one explicitly agreed to.
“Where Are You with Cult dynamics — when belonging becomes captivity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.