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Scenario

What to do when you're caught between two friends in conflict

My two best friends have been in a weird conflict for months where they're both complaining to me about each other but won't talk directly, and I feel like I'm being used as a messenger. I care about both of them but I'm starting to feel resentful about being put in the middle, and I don't know how to get out without making things worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone is discovering that loyalty to two people can become a trap when those people won't take responsibility for their own relationship.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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