My two closest friends have been having this ongoing conflict for months and they both keep venting to me about each other, and I love them both but I'm exhausted from being in the middle and I think they're using me to avoid actually working it out, but I don't know how to extract myself without damaging both friendships.
More people experience this than they realize.
Being chosen as confidant can become a form of exile from the authentic relationship you actually want with each person.
“Where Are You with Adolescence and the parent-teen relationship?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.