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Scenario

When close friends refuse to get along and you're caught in the middle

My two closest friends have never liked each other and I've spent years trying to manage separate relationships with them, but I'm getting married next year and I can't keep doing this forever. I want them both in my life but I'm tired of being the bridge between people who don't want to cross it themselves.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone who loves two people deeply is realizing that their role as mediator is becoming unsustainable, and that continuing to manage other people's relationships is limiting their own life choices.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ chosen family tradition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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