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Scenario

When couples disagree on family caregiving boundaries

My wife and I are the primary caregivers for both of our elderly mothers who live nearby and we're burning out but we also can't agree on how much help to accept from other family members who we feel haven't been carrying their weight, and it's creating tension between us when we need to be on the same team.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are carrying a shared burden but can't align on how much others should be expected to help.

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