Our community garden committee can't agree on whether to allow people to grow whatever they want or stick to native plants, and it's turned into this proxy war about newcomers versus longtime residents that nobody wants to acknowledge directly. Every meeting gets more tense and nothing gets decided.
More people experience this than they realize.
A practical disagreement has become a symbolic conflict about belonging and change that can't be resolved on the surface level.
“Where Are You with Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.