Our community garden started as this beautiful shared project but now there are cliques and unwritten rules and people passive-aggressively sabotaging each other's plots and the WhatsApp group is toxic but none of us want to give up our little piece of earth. We created this thing together and now it's slowly poisoning itself.
More people experience this than they realize.
The investment of care and labor in common space is creating territorial attachments that undermine the very cooperation that built the space.
“Where Are You with Chosen childlessness and its social dimension?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.