Our entire friend group has started excluding Sarah from things because she said something politically incorrect at dinner last month and now we're all just quietly going along with it even though some of us think it's gone too far. I keep participating in plans without her because I don't want to be next, but I also know this isn't who I want to be.
More people experience this than they realize.
The group's unspoken rules about acceptable behavior have created a dynamic where individual conscience conflicts with the safety of belonging.
“Where Are You with Groupthink and the cost of belonging?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.