Periagoge
Scenario

When extended family maintains connection through performance rather than honesty

Our family does this thing where we all gather for big events but nobody ever talks about anything real - we just perform happiness and closeness while dancing around all the hurt and disappointment underneath. My cousins and I have started texting about it but none of us knows how to break the pattern.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The family has chosen preservation over truth, but the cost of that choice is starting to feel too high.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The family you leave and the family you build?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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