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Scenario

When family foundations face questions about perpetuating versus dismantling systems

Our family foundation has been running for fifteen years and my brother handles most of the day-to-day decisions while I focus on my practice, but lately I've been wondering if we're just perpetuating the same systems we say we want to change — giving to organizations that make us feel good rather than ones that might actually shift power. When I brought this up, he got defensive and said I'm being naive about how philanthropy actually works, and now there's this tension every time we talk about grants.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Siblings are confronting whether their established giving patterns serve their stated values or simply maintain comfortable distance from real change.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Philanthropy — giving as legacy strategy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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