Our friend group from college has been trying to maintain the same level of closeness we had when we lived together, but now we're scattered across different cities with different life stages, and some of us are holding on too tightly while others have already let go. The group chat feels forced and the reunions feel desperate.
More people experience this than they realize.
The deepest friendships of youth can become prisons when they resist the natural evolution that comes with time and distance.
“Where Are You with Solitude and belonging — the necessary tension?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.