Our friend group from our kids' school includes other families of color but we all live in this predominantly white suburb and none of us talks about why we're all here or what we're giving up or gaining by staying. There's this weird solidarity but also this shared guilt that nobody names.
More people experience this than they realize.
The unspoken complexity of choosing comfort over community, sharing a space of partial belonging while avoiding the conversation about what brought you all there.
“Where Are You with The minority experience of belonging in majority spaces?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.