Our friend group has been sharing this vacation house for eight years and now that some of us have kids and others don't the whole dynamic is breaking down - who pays for what, when we can use it, whether kids should even be there. Nobody wants to be the one to say this isn't working anymore but we're all walking on eggshells every time we're there together.
More people experience this than they realize.
A group of friends is learning that shared ownership requires renegotiating the terms as their lives diverge, but no one wants to risk the friendship by naming what's not working.
“Where Are You with The commons and shared resources?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.