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Scenario

When long-term friend groups start feeling obligatory rather than nourishing

Our friend group has been tight since college but lately when we all get together it feels forced and I think we're all just going through the motions because we don't know how to let go of what we used to be. Nobody wants to be the one to say that maybe we've outgrown this version of friendship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're all clinging to a shared identity that no longer fits who you've become, but no one knows how to evolve it without losing it entirely.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Assimilation vs. cultural preservation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.