Our friend group has this unspoken thing where we all accommodate Jake's drinking problem by planning around it, making excuses, cleaning up messes, and we've never directly talked about it. Some of us are getting exhausted by it and others think we're being unsupportive, and now there's tension in the group beyond just the original issue.
More people experience this than they realize.
A community is fragmenting under the weight of unacknowledged caretaking and different thresholds for what love requires.
“Where Are You with Indigenous seventh-generation thinking?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.