Periagoge
Scenario

When casual social groups become unexpectedly intimate and demanding

Our neighborhood book club started as a casual monthly thing but has evolved into this intense emotional support network where people share really personal stuff, and now I feel trapped between wanting intellectual discussion and being expected to provide therapy for people I barely know. I miss just talking about books.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Groups can drift from their original purpose into emotional territory that some members never consented to enter.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Solitude and belonging — the necessary tension?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.