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Scenario

Why family treats spouses differently despite similar achievements

At family dinners my relatives always ask my white husband about his job and career plans but they ask me when we are having kids and I have two degrees and a promotion I am proud of.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Differential treatment within intimate circles cuts deepest because it reveals the limits of unconditional love.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Microaggressions and the slow exclusion?”

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