Everyone in our friend group uses my lake house every summer but nobody ever helps with maintenance or utilities and I do not know how to ask without seeming petty
More people experience this than they realize.
Generous sharing can become exploitative when reciprocity assumptions remain unspoken and unmet.
“Where Are You with The commons and shared resources?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.