Periagoge
Scenario

When generosity becomes a form of control

I always pick up the dinner check when we go out with friends and last night someone finally said I should let others pay sometimes but honestly I do not trust that they will and I like being in control.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

True reciprocity requires releasing control and trusting others to contribute in their own way and timing.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reciprocity as community foundation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.