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Scenario

Why finding family can feel like betrayal

I am adopted and just found my birth mother and she wants a relationship but I feel disloyal to the parents who raised me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Exploring birth family connections is creating conflict between curiosity and loyalty to adoptive family relationships.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian relational self?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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