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Scenario

How to make care decisions when your parent opposes them

I am considering putting my mother in a nursing home and she begs me not to every time I visit and I feel like I am abandoning her but I cannot do this anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love sometimes requires us to act against the stated wishes of those we seek to protect.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parental love — its nature and its complexity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.