I am good at being the listener and helper but I do not know how to let people see my struggles and without that vulnerability I think my friendships stay shallow.
More people experience this than they realize.
The helper role provides safety through control but precludes the mutuality that creates real intimacy.
“Where Are You with Making friends as an adult — the difficulty?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.