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Scenario

When grief complicates ancestral obligations

I discovered my mother has been lying about performing ancestral rites for my father and I realized she has been angry at him even in death and I do not know whether to confront her or take over myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unresolved marital pain extends beyond death, corrupting the sacred duty of remembrance.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian ancestral tablets and ongoing relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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