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Scenario

How connecting with birth family affects adoptive relationships

I found my birth family through DNA testing and they're wonderful but I feel like I'm cheating on my adoptive parents who gave me everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The human heart's capacity for multiple loves can feel like betrayal when loyalty seems finite and family structures appear mutually exclusive.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family as belonging — and its limits?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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