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Scenario

When honesty might be cruelty

I had an affair and ended it but I cannot decide if telling my wife would relieve my guilt or destroy our marriage.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The conflict between personal integrity and protecting a partner from pain is creating paralysis about disclosure of betrayal.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian relational self?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.