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Scenario

When carpooling relationships become complicated

I have been carpooling with the same three people for two years but one of them never pays for gas and always makes us late and I do not want to drive alone again

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Interdependence creates tolerance for behavior that would be unacceptable in other relationships due to mutual need.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The commons and shared resources?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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