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Scenario

How to handle obvious reciprocity avoidance

I helped my cousin move twice this year and when I asked him to help with my move he said he threw out his back but I saw him playing basketball the next day.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Transparent excuses wound more deeply than honest refusal because they add deception to the original selfishness.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reciprocity as community foundation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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