Periagoge
Scenario

Why poor reciprocity hurts more than no help at all

I lent my car to my roommate after hers was totaled and she returned it with an empty gas tank and a parking ticket and acted like I should be grateful she drove carefully.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Careless reciprocity signals that our generosity is not valued enough to merit thoughtful response.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reciprocity as community foundation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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