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Scenario

When long-term code-switching affects intimate relationships

I realized I've been code-switching in my marriage for ten years and I don't know how to start being my full self without feeling like I'm becoming a different person.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sustained adaptation even in close relationships can make authentic self-expression feel foreign and risky.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Code-switching as belonging strategy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.