I sound completely different when I talk to my white colleagues versus my family and I hate that I monitor myself so carefully but I also know what happens when I don't.
More people experience this than they realize.
The exhaustion of performing acceptability while staying connected to home creates a painful split in identity.
“Where Are You with Code-switching as belonging strategy?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.