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Scenario

When caregiving burden falls unequally among siblings

I take care of my aging father and my siblings live far away and send money instead of visiting and I'm burned out but feel guilty for wanting help that isn't financial.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Geographic proximity can create disproportionate responsibility that breeds resentment even when distant siblings contribute what they can.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family as belonging — and its limits?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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