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Scenario

When financial help becomes financial enabling

My adult daughter keeps borrowing money from me and never pays it back and I keep giving it to her because I cannot stand to see her struggle.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to alleviate immediate suffering can perpetuate the conditions that create ongoing dependency.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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