My brother and I both became lawyers like our dad wanted but we haven't had a real conversation in fifteen years because we were raised to compete with each other instead of support each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
The competitive dynamics that were meant to motivate achievement have permanently damaged the relationships that should have been your greatest source of support.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.