My brother and I both want to be the one to keep our father's tablet after he passes and we're already fighting about it even though he's still alive.
More people experience this than they realize.
Anticipatory grief manifests as conflict over who deserves the primary role in ancestral honor.
“Where Are You with Confucian ancestral tablets and ongoing relationship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.